A Nigerian man living in the UK has reportedly backed out of a marriage proposal due to an expensive and demanding traditional bride price list presented by the woman’s family. The story, shared by social media user Princess Adeola, has sparked debates around cultural practices that might discourage potential suitors.
The bride price list, intended to honor the bride’s family, included various items such as drinks, livestock, clothing, and cash gifts for extended family members, amounting to approximately N3.5 million. Despite being deeply committed to the woman and willing to take her abroad and fund her education, the man was heartbroken to discover that she supported her family’s demands, citing Nigeria’s economic challenges.
The man, who had been navigating the complexities of a long-distance relationship, had earlier sought advice from a social media influencer on his plans to marry her. In his frustration, he described the demands as akin to “selling a child” and questioned how a marriage could begin under such financial strain. He expressed that his intentions to invest in the woman’s future abroad should have been valued more than monetary expectations.
Princess Adeola shared the man’s emotional turmoil, stating that he had genuine plans to take the woman abroad and pay for her education, but the family’s greed had led to the loss of a good man. The man has reportedly decided to call off the wedding and plans to block the woman, choosing to heal and move on with his life.
