A story gaining attention online involves a man canceling his marriage proposal due to an extensive and costly traditional bride price list from his fiancée’s family.
Shared by social media user Princess Adeola, the incident shed light on the emotional strain it placed on the man and sparked debates about cultural practices that some believe deter potential suitors.
The bride price list included numerous items such as crates of beverages, livestock, clothing, and cash gifts for various relatives, with the total value estimated at ₦3.5 million. While these lists are intended to honor the bride’s family, critics argue they can impose significant financial pressure.
The prospective groom, reportedly excited to marry and committed to taking the bride abroad and sponsoring her education, was devastated to learn that she supported her family’s demands. She justified the list by citing rising living costs in Nigeria, leaving the man heartbroken.
Adeola expressed her disappointment, describing the groom as a “good man” who had been willing to make sacrifices for his partner. She criticized the bride’s family, calling their demands “greedy,” and encouraged women to advocate for fairness and reasonability in such matters.
The story has fueled widespread online discussions, with varying perspectives on the role of bride price in modern relationships. Some view it as an essential cultural tradition that fosters respect and family unity, while others see it as an outdated custom that creates unnecessary obstacles and financial strain for couples.
The debate continues, raising questions about balancing cultural heritage with modern realities in marriage practices.
